Dear Angela,

I recently got a new job and was relocated for a few weeks to do training in a different city (not saying where in case this reveals my identity!). I have a huge crush on one of the training executives, who has casually flirted with me on occasion. Do you think it's worth the risk to try something with him considering I won't be working with him directly in two weeks?

-More than on the job training

Let me get this straight - the hottie you have a crush on lives in another city, is in charge of your training (at a brand new job, no less) and the only green light you’ve gotten from him is a casual flirt...and you are debating on whether a hook up is a good idea.

The answer is no.  It’s stupid and reckless and completely not worth it.  Put your hormones on ice for two weeks, or find a different crush.

Dear Angela,

I come from a traditional Southern upbringing. I was taught that when a guy goes to eat with his significant other and her girlfriends, he's footing the bill because that's just the gentleman-like thing to do. One of my best friends just started dating a guy who had the same type of upbringing as mine. He came with us to brunch one day, and I watched him hesitate and then pull back when the bill came around. We ended up splitting the costs. Should I be offended?

-Southern Manners

Dear SM,

Cotton, cornbread and chitlins are all “Southern” things...expecting a guy will “man up” is universal.  This is not to say that I 100% agree with your southern graces taking offense, but I do think you have a point.

The classy thing for a man to do, when out with a group of women, is to pick up the check, particularly if said group of women are the confidantes of the woman you just started dating.  Nothing like making a good first impression, right? On the other hand, you don’t know enough about this guy yet to condemn his for his cheapskate ways.

Give him a second chance to redeem himself.

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About Angela Lutin:
Angela Lutin is Essentially Angela. Blogger, Advice Columnist and Dating Guru for the social media age—decoding modern love one tweet, text, and like at a time. Angela’s dating advice column, "The Naked Truth," appears exclusively each week on bocamag.com and in each issue of Boca Ratonmagazine. Her work appears regularly on the Huffington Post. She can been seen on MTV’s "Made" and Bravo’s hit show, "Millionaire Matchmaker." Crafting personal dating makeovers for her clients, Angela also maintains a private practice, which turns the romantically challenged into the relationship-inclined. Follow Angela on Facebook or Twitter.